When you don’t get something you hoped for, tell yourself, “You deserve something better.”

You deserve

When you don't get something you hoped for, tell yourself you deserve something better.

Ask yourself, “What do I have control over?” Stop blaming yourself for what you cannot control.

What you have control over

Ask yourself what you have control over. Stop blaming yourself for what you cannot control.

Replace self-criticism with self-celebration. If something goes poorly, tell yourself, “I’m practicing getting better.”

Getting better

Replace self-criticism with self-celebration. If you feel something went poorly, tell yourself, I'm practicing getting better. If you reward a behavior, you are more likely to do it again, rather than to avoid it.

If you get dealt a “bad hand,” commit to playing the hand very well.

Very well

If you get dealt a bad hand, commit to playing the hand very well.

You deserve

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