When life is hard, use compassionate words in self-talk, such as “I am resilient” and “I have grit.”

Resilient grit

When life is hard, use compassionate words in self-talk, such as, I am resilient, and I have grit.

When you are feeling bored, tell yourself, “This is a sense of calm and ease.”

Calm and ease

When you are feeling bored, tell yourself, this is a sense of calm and ease.

When you don’t get something you hoped for, tell yourself, “You deserve something better.”

You deserve

When you don't get something you hoped for, tell yourself you deserve something better.

Replace self-criticism with self-celebration. If something goes poorly, tell yourself, “I’m practicing getting better.”

Getting better

Replace self-criticism with self-celebration. If you feel something went poorly, tell yourself, I'm practicing getting better. If you reward a behavior, you are more likely to do it again, rather than to avoid it.

Resilient grit

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