Replace self-criticism with self-celebration. If something goes poorly, tell yourself, “I’m practicing getting better.”

Getting better

Replace self-criticism with self-celebration. If you feel something went poorly, tell yourself, I'm practicing getting better. If you reward a behavior, you are more likely to do it again, rather than to avoid it.

When you compare yourself to others, you can label it “unhelpful” or use others' success as inspiration.

Compare to others

When you compare yourself to others, you can label it unhelpful or use others' success as inspiration.

Words matter. They create real-world results. Notice how you feel when you call yourself lazy versus recharging or restoring your energy.

Recharge

Words matter. They create real-world results. Notice how you feel when you call yourself lazy. How do you feel when you say you are recharging or restoring your energy? Just as you need to recharge your phone or car, you yourself need to take time out to recharge.

Don’t get caught in the trap of comparing your darkest moments to others' greatest wins. Choose what you focus on. That choice will determine your emotions.

Choose your emotions

Don't get caught in the trap of comparing your darkest moments to others greatest wins. Choose what you focus on. That choice will determine your emotions.

Getting better

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