Don’t get caught in the trap of comparing your darkest moments to others' greatest wins. Choose what you focus on. That choice will determine your emotions.

Choose your emotions

Don't get caught in the trap of comparing your darkest moments to others greatest wins. Choose what you focus on. That choice will determine your emotions.

When you feel lost, take a broader perspective: list what you are grateful for, past successes, and label emotions that you feel.

Three steps

When you feel lost, try these three steps to take a broader perspective. List what you are grateful for, list past successes, and label emotions that you feel.

Remember times you felt confident and capable; celebrate those memories and notice how your body feels when you celebrate yourself.

Confident and capable

Remember times you felt confident and capable. Celebrate those memories and notice how your body feels when you celebrate yourself.

When life is hard, use compassionate words in self-talk, such as “I am resilient” and “I have grit.”

Resilient grit

When life is hard, use compassionate words in self-talk, such as, I am resilient, and I have grit.

Choose your emotions

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