When you compare yourself to others, you can label it “unhelpful” or use others' success as inspiration.

Compare to others

When you compare yourself to others, you can label it unhelpful or use others' success as inspiration.

Even if you fall short of achieving a goal, you can gain confidence and practice. When you work toward a goal, you start new behaviors and stop self-defeating behaviors. The secret of goal setting is that it is rocket fuel for behavior change—even if you don’t achieve your goal.

Rocket fuel

Even if you fall short of achieving a goal, you gain confidence and practice. When you work toward a goal, you start new behaviors and stop self-defeating behaviors. The secret of goal setting is that it is rocket fuel for behavior change. Even if you don't achieve your goal.

When you make a mistake, tell yourself, “This is part of being on the learning curve.”

Learning curve

When you make a mistake, tell yourself, this is a part of being on the learning curve.

Ask yourself, “What do I have control over?” Stop blaming yourself for what you cannot control.

What you have control over

Ask yourself what you have control over. Stop blaming yourself for what you cannot control.

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