How does it feel when someone says to you, “I’m here for you,” or they say “good job” or “you got this”? Think about how positive encouragement can change how we parent ADHD kids or talk to ourselves through daily stumbles.

relationship with frustration

The Pareto principle was developed by Pareto, observing that 20% of the pea pods in his garden led to 80% of his peas. This can help you develop a relationship with frustration. Focus on planting seeds and expect that 20% of your efforts will pay off.

If someone you loved felt “not good enough,” what would you say to them? Say this to yourself when you don’t feel good enough.

Good enough

If someone you loved felt not good enough, what would you say to them? Say this to yourself when you yourself don't feel good enough.

When the stuff hits the fan, pause, breathe in through your nose into your belly. Tell yourself, “I am more than capable of handling this.”

More than capable

When the stuff hits the fan, pause, breathe in through your nose into your belly. Tell yourself, I am more than capable of handling this.

If you are frustrated with the time it takes to make changes in your life, tell yourself, “This will take time; I can improve in a slow and easy way.”

This will take time

If you are frustrated with the time it takes to make changes in your life, tell yourself, this will take time. I can improve in a slow and easy way.

relationship with frustration

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