If you're parenting a child with ADHD, you've likely battled bedtime chaos, midnight wake-ups, or mornings that start in meltdown.
You’re not alone. Sleep challenges are one of the most overlooked but most powerful factors in ADHD management.
And the real problem? Most advice about ADHD and sleep skips over the emotional piece.
At Bonding Health, we believe emotional regulation starts the night before.
Because when a child with ADHD doesn’t sleep well, everything the next day gets harder: focus, mood, flexibility, motivation. It all hinges on rest.
In this journal, we’ll explore how sleep impacts emotional regulation, what science says about ADHD sleep patterns, and how a simple bedtime routine using our Qiks can make a game-changing difference.
Research shows that up to 70% of children with ADHD have sleep difficulties.
Common patterns include:
Difficulty falling asleep
Restlessness or night waking
Difficulty waking up
Reversed circadian rhythms (night owl tendencies)
This isn't just a behavioral issue. It's neurological. ADHD impacts the brain’s ability to transition from stimulation to rest. It disrupts melatonin production, dopamine regulation, and even body temperature cues that tell the brain it's time to wind down.
The result?
Irritability
Impulsivity
Inattention
Emotional dysregulation
All made worse after a poor night’s sleep.
But here’s the hopeful part: creating a consistent, emotionally supportive bedtime routine can reset the entire system.
Emotional regulation relies on three brain functions that sleep directly restores:
Prefrontal Cortex Function
(attention, decision-making, emotional control)
Amygdala Modulation
(reduces emotional reactivity)
Neurotransmitter Rebalancing
(dopamine, serotonin, GABA)
Without sleep, it’s not just that your child is tired — their brain literally can’t regulate emotions the way it needs to.
We built this routine around our most-used Qiks and principles from neuroscience and child psychology. The key is to reduce stimulation while building emotional safety and self-soothing.
1. The Wind-Down Window (60 minutes before bed)
Turn off screens. Dim lights. Start signaling that the day is ending.
2. Physical Calm (30 minutes before bed)
Use calming sensory input: warm bath, soft fabrics, heavy blanket pressure, or gentle stretches.
3. Emotional Reset (15 minutes before bed)
Use a Qik designed for evening emotional reflection. Try "Overwhelmed," "Transition Anxiety," or "I Feel Tense." This helps your child identify and release lingering emotions from the day.
4. Predictable Ritual (5–10 minutes)
Repeat the same steps every night: brush teeth, choose clothes for the next day, say goodnight to pets, read one chapter. Predictability builds psychological safety.
5. Qik or Breathwork (in bed)
Play a calming Qik or do a simple breath exercise: 4 seconds in, 4 out. You can guide this for your child or do it together.
This routine trains the brain to associate bedtime with decompression, reflection, and regulation.
Qiks are effective at night because they combine:
Emotion labeling (which reduces intensity)
Reframing (which shifts stress perceptions)
Calming breath cues (which trigger the parasympathetic nervous system)
In just 2 minutes, a Qik can lower emotional activation and transition a restless ADHD brain into a calmer state.
Parents report that their kids fall asleep faster, wake up less often, and even start asking for their bedtime Qik after a few days.
Screens within 60 minutes of sleep (especially YouTube and fast-paced content)
Caffeine, sugar, or intense exercise late in the day
Power struggles or emotional lectures (Save the big conversations for earlier in the evening)
Remember: bedtime is not just about shutting down the body — it’s about settling the nervous system.
Try the "Bedtime Reset" Qik with Your Child
Found in the Bonding Health app under "Evening Tools"
Use Our Symptom Quiz to Personalize Your Routine
This will help match the right emotional regulation tools to your child’s unique symptoms
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All of this is free to begin. Start with one small shift tonight and build from there.
Getting your child to sleep well isn’t just about bedtime. It’s about helping their brain recover so they can thrive tomorrow.
When they sleep, their nervous system rebalances. And when you sleep, your capacity to parent with compassion and clarity returns.
Qiks are your tool for making that transition smoother — for both of you.
You deserve rest. And your child deserves a regulated brain.
Let us help you get there.
Want help managing emotional overload?
Try our Emotional Regulation Quiz and get tailored tips.