How to Communicate Effectively in ADHD Parenting: 5 Insights from David Riemer


Dr. Lara Honos-Webb

Dr. Lara Honos-Webb

Ph.D. and Clinical Psychologist

Apr 13, 2024

How to Communicate Effectively in ADHD Parenting: 5 Insights from David Riemer

In the fast-paced world of ADHD parenting, parents often seek effective strategies to create a happy and healthy home life for children facing the unique challenges of ADHD. This blog post, inspired by a mentoring session with David Riemer, an advisor at the Skydeck accelerator and author of “Get Your Startup Story Straight: The Definitive Storytelling Framework for Innovators and Entrepreneurs (2021),” explores how marketing strategies can be crucial in reaching and assisting these parents.

David Riemer offers a fresh perspective, not as a parenting expert, but as a master storyteller and marketer who grasps the importance of deep connections with your audience. His insights are pivotal, emphasizing a thorough understanding of the ADHD parenting dynamic before crafting messages that resonate.

1. Embracing a Parent-Centric Approach in ADHD Parenting

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One of the core themes of our conversation was the importance of adopting a Parent-Centric perspective towards ADHD. David highlighted the necessity of understanding the experience of ADHD not just from a clinical standpoint but from the lived experiences of children and the nuanced perceptions of their parents.

This approach acknowledges the societal judgments parents often face, adding an additional layer of complexity to their experience. From a psychological perspective, recognizing these challenges is the first step toward developing interventions that address the multifaceted nature of ADHD, emphasizing empathy and support.

2. Identifying Core Challenges of ADHD Parenting

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A significant portion of our dialogue was dedicated to uncovering the primary challenges that parents encounter. The task was not merely to list these challenges but to understand them deeply, allowing for a more targeted approach to marketing. We identified three primary areas: managing misbehavior, fostering positive behavior, and navigating parents’ own emotional responses during stressful moments. We discussed an interview with a parent who described an embarrassing moment of having his child throw a temper tantrum at a birthday party.

This story illustrated how a parent’s thoughtful approach of managing their own embarrassment and attending to how these typical developmental outbursts can be learning experiences for parents and child rather than moments of shame. In short, we are not marketing unrealistic expectations for children but giving parents validation for the day to day challenges and helpful tools. Even an adult might want to cry when it’s time to leave a fun party😀

3. Focused Solution Development

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Following the identification of these core areas, we discussed how to communicate targeted solutions available in the Bonding Health app. The app offers proactive strategies, support, and tools for emotional regulation. These strategies align with the idea of responsiveness, where interventions are tailored to meet specific needs, thereby enhancing their effectiveness. Marketing should highlight these proactive and practical strategies that can serve as a resource for parents seeking to navigate the complexities of ADHD management.

4. Leveraging Strategic Marketing and Storytelling

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David also emphasized the power of storytelling in creating a connection with the audience. This advice is particularly pertinent in the context of ADHD, where parents often feel isolated in their experiences. By sharing stories that resonate with these experiences, Bonding Health can foster a sense of community and understanding. Moreover, storytelling can be an effective way to communicate complex information in an accessible manner, bridging the gap between clinical knowledge and practical application. What parent cannot identify with the embarrassment we may feel as a child throws a tantrum at a birthday party, feeling like we are being judged by other parents?

5. Empowering Parents

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Ultimately, the goal of our conversation—and, by extension, the mission of Bonding Health—is to communicate these benefits to parents. By making ADHD management clearer and offering easy-to-use tools and resources, we can boost parents’ confidence in their ability to help their kids.

This confidence is not just about managing ADHD symptoms but about enhancing the overall well-being of the family unit. The concept of self-efficacy, which is all about believing in your own ability to handle certain situations successfully, plays a key role here. By enhancing parents’ self-efficacy, we can positively impact their ability to navigate the challenges of ADHD. Using stories that most parents have experienced may prevent parents feeling shame about reaching out for a tool that offers strategies to address developmental and predictable challenges.

My conversation with David Riemer reinforced the importance of communicating a nuanced understanding of ADHD, the development of focused solutions, and the strategic use of storytelling to communicate effectively with our target audience. These insights are invaluable as Bonding Health continues to strive toward making a meaningful impact on the lives of families dealing with ADHD. By approaching this challenge with empathy, evidence-based strategies, and a deep commitment to understanding the human experience, we can make significant strides in supporting these families.

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