Resilience and ADHD: Emotion Regulation Breakthrough Study


Dr. Lara Honos-Webb

Dr. Lara Honos-Webb

Ph.D. and Clinical Psychologist

Dec 10, 2024

Resilience and ADHD: Emotion Regulation Breakthrough Study

Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is widely recognized for its challenges related to focus, impulse control, and motivation. However, a pivotal study published in Nature Mental Health reveals a lesser-known but equally important factor: emotion dysregulation. This study identifies emotion dysregulation as a core pathway to ADHD, distinct from cognitive and motivational impairments (Hou, W., et al; 2024)

At Bonding Health, we empower parents of ADHD children by turning these insights into actionable strategies. Through tools like guided questions, bonding exercises, and emotional regulation techniques, parents can foster emotional resilience and teach life-changing skills such as self-talk.

Let’s explore the study’s findings, followed by a relatable case study showcasing the effectiveness of the "Press On" self-talk strategy—a simple but transformative tool for emotional regulation.

Key Findings from the Research: Emotion Dysregulation and ADHD

  1. Emotion Dysregulation as a Core Pathway

    • Emotion dysregulation significantly contributes to ADHD symptoms and may exist independently of cognitive or motivational deficits.

  2. Distinct Neural Correlates

    • MRI data revealed that smaller surface areas in the right pars orbitalis region of the brain’s inferior frontal gyrus are linked to emotion dysregulation and attention challenges.

  3. Persistence of Symptoms

    • Among children with severe ADHD symptoms, 21% exhibited no cognitive or motivational deficits, highlighting emotion dysregulation as a distinct and central issue.

  4. Pharmacological Limitations

    • Traditional ADHD treatments like stimulant medications may not address emotional regulation challenges, underlining the need for emotional focused interventions.

These findings underscore the importance of integrating emotional regulation strategies into ADHD treatment plans—something Bonding Health is designed to support.

Case Study: Teaching "Press On" Self-Talk

The "Press On" mantra is a simple yet powerful tool for teaching emotional regulation and perseverance. Let’s see how it works through the experiences of Clara and her 12-year-old daughter, Mia.

From the Parent’s Perspective: Clara and the Thank-You Letter

The Challenge:

After receiving a gift from her grandmother, Mia was asked to write a thank-you note. Instead of being enthusiastic, Mia expressed frustration and complained, “I don’t know what to say.”

Recognizing the Moment for Growth:

Clara recognized an opportunity to teach emotional resilience. She introduced the "Press On" mantra to help Mia manage her frustration.

Coaching Through Frustration:

Clara sat with Mia and said:
"I know writing thank-you notes can feel hard. It’s okay to feel frustrated, but let’s find a way to press on."

Breaking the Task into Steps:

Clara encouraged Mia to brainstorm ideas together. They started with a simple sentence:
"Thank you for the gift. I love it because…"

Reflecting on Success:

Once the note was finished, Clara praised Mia’s effort:
"See? You pressed on and finished something important. Grandma will be so happy!"

This exercise taught Mia the value of persistence while reinforcing Clara’s bond with her daughter.

From the Child’s Perspective: Mia’s 5K Challenge

The Challenge:

A few weeks later, Mia faced another hurdle—her family’s annual 5K charity run. While her parents were excited, Mia dreaded the long distance, worried she wouldn’t finish.

Embracing Self-Talk:

Clara reminded Mia of her earlier success with the thank-you note and introduced the same mantra:
"When it feels tough, tell yourself, ‘Press on—I’ve done hard things before, and I can do this.’"

Finding a Supportive Rhythm:

During the run, Mia felt tired halfway through. Instead of stopping, she repeated her mantra:
"Press on. One step at a time."

Celebrating Small Wins:

As Mia passed each kilometer marker, she acknowledged her progress:
"I’m doing it! I’ve gone farther than I thought I could."

Finishing Strong:

Crossing the finish line, Mia felt an incredible sense of pride—not just for completing the race but for overcoming her doubts using self-talk.

Why "Press On" Works

The "Press On" mantra combines emotional regulation and cognitive reframing, making it effective for managing ADHD-related challenges:

  • Reframes Challenges: Shifts focus from obstacles to progress, reducing anxiety and self-doubt.

  • Builds Emotional Resilience: Encourages persistence and tolerance for discomfort, fostering long-term growth.

  • Strengthens Parent-Child Bonds: Collaborative problem-solving enhances trust and connection.

How Bonding Health Supports Emotional Regulation

The Bonding Health app offers parents practical tools to teach emotional resilience and strengthen their relationship with their child:

  • Guided Questions: Help parents identify their emotions and better understand their child’s frustrations.

  • Bonding Exercises: Strategies that go symptom by symptom 

  • Parenting Strategies: Offer actionable suggestions for improving focus, patience, and organization.

  • Emotional Regulation Tools: Empower families to manage emotions collaboratively, creating healthier dynamics.

5 More Self-Talk Strategies to Mix it Up

  1. "Keep the Momentum"
    Reinforces staying engaged and focused, even when tasks feel challenging.

  2. "One More Try"
    Inspires persistence by framing effort as one more opportunity to succeed.

  3. "Focus Forward"
    Shifts attention from past frustrations to future possibilities and solutions.

  4. "Take the Next Step"
    Simplifies overwhelming tasks by focusing on just the immediate next action.

  5. "Stay Steady"
    Encourages calm and focus, reminding the child to maintain composure and keep moving.

Conclusion: Turning Challenges into Opportunities

Emotion dysregulation is a key factor in ADHD, yet it often goes unaddressed. Research highlights the need for innovative approaches like the Bonding Health app to provide practical tools for emotional regulation.

Teaching kids to "Press On" isn’t just about tackling day-to-day frustrations—it’s about equipping them with lifelong skills for resilience and self-confidence.

So the next time you or your child face a challenge, remember: "Press on." Together, you’ve got this.

Hou, W., Sahakian, B.J., Langley, C. et al. Emotion dysregulation and right pars orbitalis constitute a neuropsychological pathway to attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. Nat. Mental Health 2, 840–852 (2024). https://doi.org/10.1038/s44220-024-00251-z

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